Le compliment, je me disais, c\u2019est quelque chose que beaucoup de couples n\u00e9gligent, une petite friandise souvent oubli\u00e9e, mais qu\u2019une l\u00e9g\u00e8re prise de conscience suffit \u00e0 sortir du tiroir. J\u2019\u00e9tais convaincue qu\u2019un petit effort, une demande explicite, un peu d\u2019humour, r\u00e8glerait vite le probl\u00e8me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne pas avoir de compliments ne d\u00e9clenche pas une crise dans le couple, mais si cela se r\u00e9p\u00e8te tout le temps, tous ces petits ressentis finissent par s\u2019accumuler. On commence par en blaguer. Tu n\u2019es vraiment pas dou\u00e9 pour les compliments\u2009! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Puis bien s\u00fbr la vie offre des petites \u00e9preuves. On se retrouve en situation de vuln\u00e9rabilit\u00e9, d\u2019inconfort, ridicule peut-\u00eatre ou simplement mal \u00e0 l\u2019aise. On a alors besoin d\u2019un peu de r\u00e9confort, de se rassurer, de se sentir aim\u00e9. Alors on demande, qu\u2019est ce que tu as pens\u00e9 de moi\u2009? Je n\u2019ai pas \u00e9t\u00e9 trop maladroite\u2009? Trop insistante\u2009? Trop effac\u00e9e\u2009?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Premi\u00e8re d\u00e9convenue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Et peu \u00e0 peu, dans un goutte-\u00e0-goutte impitoyable, le r\u00e9servoir de la frustration se remplit.
Tr\u00e8s doucement. Tr\u00e8s insidieusement,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Le compliment, je me disais, c\u2019est quelque chose que beaucoup de couples n\u00e9gligent, une petite friandise souvent oubli\u00e9e, mais qu\u2019une l\u00e9g\u00e8re prise de conscience suffit \u00e0 sortir du tiroir. J\u2019\u00e9tais convaincue qu\u2019un petit effort, une demande explicite, un peu d\u2019humour, r\u00e8glerait vite le probl\u00e8me. Ne pas avoir de compliments ne d\u00e9clenche pas une crise dans […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":283,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"on","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[14,13,8,9],"class_list":["post-178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-non-classe","tag-communication","tag-evolution","tag-historique","tag-langage","entry","has-media"],"yoast_head":"\n