J\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 mon mari il y a 12 ans, nous avons deux petites filles. C\u2019est environ 8 ans plus tard que j\u2019ai crois\u00e9 le mot Alexithymique. Il a imm\u00e9diatement raisonn\u00e9 en moi. \u00c0 la fois une chape de plomb et une respiration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
J\u2019ai d\u00fb le croiser par hasard sur la toile, au d\u00e9tour d\u2019une recherche, probablement sur les \u00e9motions. C\u2019est \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s \u00e0 cette \u00e9poque que je commen\u00e7ais \u00e0 envisager une sexualit\u00e9 diff\u00e9rente, accordant plus de place \u00e0 la communication, \u00e0 l\u2019intimit\u00e9, aux \u00e9motions et \u00e0 la pleine pr\u00e9sence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je me souviens du sentiment de soulagement imm\u00e9diat, \u00e0 pouvoir mettre un mot sur quelque chose qui jusqu\u2019\u00e0 l\u00e0 avait \u00e9chapp\u00e9 \u00e0 mes capacit\u00e9s de verbalisation et d\u2019analyse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je me souviens aussi de ce chiffre, 10 \u00e0 15 % de la population. Nous devions donc \u00eatre nombreux \u00e0 ressentir le m\u00eame d\u00e9sarroi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Et puis c\u2019est \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s tout. Je n\u2019ai pas oubli\u00e9 le mot, mais il me fallut encore 2 ans pour v\u00e9ritablement le sortir du tiroir, et le regarder en face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
J\u2019en suis l\u00e0, j\u2019en suis \u00e0 ce tournant, ce moment o\u00f9 on comprend qu\u2019on ne changera pas l\u2019autre. Ce moment o\u00f9 l\u2019on sent qu\u2019il faut renoncer pour pouvoir aller plus loin. Ce moment o\u00f9 on accepte de regarder la r\u00e9alit\u00e9 en face. Ce moment o\u00f9 on voit toute la col\u00e8re se transformer en une immense tristesse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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J\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 mon mari il y a 12 ans, nous avons deux petites filles. C\u2019est environ 8 ans plus tard que j\u2019ai crois\u00e9 le mot Alexithymique. Il a imm\u00e9diatement raisonn\u00e9 en moi. \u00c0 la fois une chape de plomb et une respiration. J\u2019ai d\u00fb le croiser par hasard sur la toile, au d\u00e9tour d\u2019une recherche, probablement sur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":282,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"on","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[13,8,21,7],"class_list":["post-176","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-non-classe","tag-evolution","tag-historique","tag-sexualite","tag-solitude","entry","has-media"],"yoast_head":"\n