La toute premi\u00e8re fois o\u00f9 j\u2019ai senti quelque chose d\u2019un peu \u00e9trange, et qui m\u2019a suffisamment \u00e9tonn\u00e9e pour que je m\u2019en souvienne douze\u00a0ans plus tard. Notre relation avait \u00e0 peine commenc\u00e9, nous \u00e9tions \u00e0 la table d\u2019un caf\u00e9 au Cap Vert, on buvait un mojito. Je ne me rappelle plus la discussion, mais il n\u2019\u00e9tait pas d\u2019accord avec moi. Sa fa\u00e7on de d\u00e9fendre son point de vue m\u2019avait parue \u00e9trange. Il y avait comme un d\u00e9calage, une inad\u00e9quation, entre ses \u00e9motions et ce qu\u2019il disait. La discussion n\u2019\u00e9tait pas personnelle, probablement un banal sujet de soci\u00e9t\u00e9, mais il y avait un surplus d\u2019\u00e9motion. Une angoisse ou une panique contenue \u00e0 d\u00e9fendre une id\u00e9e banale. Rien de bien remarquable, comme une maladresse l\u00e9g\u00e8rement d\u00e9concertante. Et une esp\u00e8ce de col\u00e8re non attach\u00e9e \u00e0 ce qu\u2019il disait, mais \u00e0 la difficult\u00e9 qu\u2019il pouvait avoir \u00e0 trouver les mots justes. J\u2019aime discuter, je pense pouvoir parler \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s de tout avec \u00e0 peu pr\u00e8s n\u2019importe qui, et j\u2019ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que ce que moi je pouvais trouver plaisant lui \u00e9tait franchement d\u00e9sagr\u00e9able.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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La toute premi\u00e8re fois o\u00f9 j\u2019ai senti quelque chose d\u2019un peu \u00e9trange, et qui m\u2019a suffisamment \u00e9tonn\u00e9e pour que je m\u2019en souvienne douze\u00a0ans plus tard. Notre relation avait \u00e0 peine commenc\u00e9, nous \u00e9tions \u00e0 la table d\u2019un caf\u00e9 au Cap Vert, on buvait un mojito. Je ne me rappelle plus la discussion, mais il n\u2019\u00e9tait […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":279,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"on","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[14,13,8,9],"class_list":["post-170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-non-classe","tag-communication","tag-evolution","tag-historique","tag-langage","entry","has-media"],"yoast_head":"\n