{"id":69,"date":"2025-05-02T23:10:51","date_gmt":"2025-05-02T21:10:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.alexithymique.com\/?page_id=69"},"modified":"2025-07-28T07:05:03","modified_gmt":"2025-07-28T05:05:03","slug":"alexithymie-pourquoi-un-site","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.alexithymique.com\/index.php\/alexithymie-pourquoi-un-site\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi un site sur l\u2019alexithymie\u2009?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Mon premier contact avec l\u2019alexithymie remonte \u00e0 environ 25 ans.<\/p>

C\u2019\u00e9tait lors d\u2019une soir\u00e9e de confidences nocturnes avec ma belle-s\u0153ur. Elles me parlaient de ses difficult\u00e9s de couple. Il y \u00e9tait question de l\u2019incapacit\u00e9 de mon fr\u00e8re \u00e0 la complimenter, \u00e0 simplement lui dire ce qu\u2019il appr\u00e9ciait chez elle ou \u00e0 faire des feed-back sur les moments partag\u00e9s. Et de sa solitude dans le couple.<\/p>

Je me souviens de ces mots.
\u2014 \u00ab\u2009Oui, il m\u2019aime\u2026 mais je pourrais m\u2019habiller en sac de patate ou me coiffer \u00e0 l\u2019Iroquoise, ce serait pareil. Tu comprends<\/strong>\u2009?<\/p>

Et non, je ne comprenais absolument pas ce qu\u2019elle voulait me dire. Je ne voyais pas en quoi c\u2019\u00e9tait un probl\u00e8me. Je la rassurais donc comme je pouvais : \u00ab\u2009Du moment qu\u2019il t\u2019aime, c\u2019est le plus important quand m\u00eame. Et puis, s\u2019il te trouve belle tout le temps, tu as de la chance\u2009!\u2009\u00bb Et c\u2019est seulement bien des ann\u00e9es plus tard, lorsqu\u2019\u00e0 mon tour je r\u00e9alisais que mon compagnon ne pouvait lui non plus exprimer aucune \u00e9motion personnelle, et que cela me plongeait dans un grand d\u00e9sarroi, que ces quelques mots \u00e9chang\u00e9s avec ma belle-s\u0153ur remont\u00e8rent \u00e0 la surface. Et que je compris.<\/p>

\u00c0 partir de ce jour-l\u00e0, ces paroles se mirent \u00e0 \u00e9clairer doucement ce que je ressentais. \u00c0 la diff\u00e9rence d\u2019Isa\u00e9, je savais que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas seule. Tout ce que je vivais au quotidien entrait en r\u00e9sonance avec ce que ma belle-s\u0153ur m\u2019avait d\u00e9crit 25 ans plus t\u00f4t.
Et c\u2019est ces deux sentiments entrem\u00eal\u00e9s qui m\u2019am\u00e8nent \u00e0 \u00e9crire aujourd\u2019hui, pour cr\u00e9er un espace o\u00f9 partager nos solitudes, nos d\u00e9sarrois et peut-\u00eatre les solutions que nous bricolons chacun de notre c\u00f4t\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mon premier contact avec l\u2019alexithymie remonte \u00e0 environ 25 ans. C\u2019\u00e9tait lors d\u2019une soir\u00e9e de confidences nocturnes avec ma belle-s\u0153ur. Elles me parlaient de ses difficult\u00e9s de couple. 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